Itha Elmer Doyle,
1874-1958,
Mary Louise Payne, 1883-1953
- by Alice Marie Beard |
Itha Elmer DOYLE had two paternal
half-brothers whom he had never seen. Mary Louise PAYNE
had two paternal first-cousins whom she had never seen.
Elmer's unknown half-brothers were
Mary's unknown first-cousins.
Likely Elmer's mother (Lucy) had been the
midwife for Mary's mother (Elizabeth) when some
of Elizabeth's children were born. Mary's mother knew
Elmer's mother when Elmer was born, and Mary's mother
would have known Elmer when he was about eight and lost
his mother to death in late February 1883, just three
months before Mary was born. The two mothers almost
certainly were friends. Friendship usually leaves no
records, but family history says that Elmer's mother was
buried in a plot donated by Mary's parents.
It's also likely that their fathers had
been friends: Itha's father (Tom) had been the
brother-in-law of Mary's father (William) when Tom was
married to William's sister Permelia. Mary's
father died when she was five; her mother remarried less
than a year later. Like Mary's father, Mary's stepfather
also would have been a friend of Itha's father, because
the stepfather was William's brother brother Able Wade.
Itha and
Mary married December 19, 1900, in Danville, Vermilion
County, Illinois. Mary was 17-and-a-half; Elmer was nine
years her senior.They did not know what they would have
to face together: The farmer's depression in the early
1920s. The Great Depression in the 1930s. Absolute
poverty.
Before their fifth child
was born in 1921, they moved from Vermilion County to
Minnesota to raise potatoes, because potatoes were
selling at a high price. When they moved, they had two
train cars filled with their possessions -- one filled
with household goods, the other with farm animals. When
they left Minnesota a few short years later, it was with
little more than the clothes on their backs and debts
owed beyond what they could ever repay. Because the price
of potatoes had risen so high, too many farmers were
growing potatoes. When Itha tried to sell his crop, he
could not have given the potatoes away; the market was
flooded.
At the age of 47, Itha had
lost everything. He spent the rest of his years working
someone else's land. He and Mary never again owned their
own farm. They took their family back to Vermilion County
and they were poor the rest of their lives.
By April 2, 1930, Elmer
and Mary were living in Lincoln Township, Berrien County,
Michigan. According the the U.S. Census, Elmer was
working as a manager on a farm. Living with him and Mary
were their youngest two children: a 12-year-old son and a
9-year-old daughter. Nearby households included Elmer and
Mary's daughter Hettie (21), with her husband Vernon (26)
and their two-year-old daughter, and Elmer and Mary's son
Lester W. (26), with his wife Hazel E. (38), and their
two daughters who were three-years-old and one-year-old.
Before 1940, Elmer moved
his family back to Vermilion County, Illinois, and before
1950, Elmer and Mary moved back to Berrien County,
Michigan, where Mary died in 1953 and Elmer died in 1958.
For burial, their bodies were taken back to Vermilion
County, Illinois. Their remains were interred at the
Potomac Cemetery in Potomac, Illinois.
Elmer's exact birth date
is not known. He had a twin sister, Ida Ellen; neither
remembered their birthday. He was illiterate. He
described himself as having gotten to the second grade
when his mother died in February of 1883; that would mean
that he was about eight years old when he became
motherless. After Elmer's mother died, he did not go to
school. There was no organized child care in rural
Illinois in the 1880s; his father placed the children
with various families and would see Elmer on the
weekends. His dad also was illiterate, worked as a miner,
and would not have be able to care for children during
the day. Even as an old man, Elmer blamed his father for
his mother's death. His mother had died of a strangulated
hernia, and Elmer said his father should have found a way
to pay for surgery to repair the hernia, so that it would
not have become strangulated. What Elmer never realized
was that such surgeries were not done until after his
mother's 1883 death.
Itha Elmer and Mary Louise were husband and wife
for fifty-two years and eight months, until parted by
Mary's death. After Mary died, Itha Elmer wore her
wedding band on his little finger. The picture at left
shows Itha Elmer and Mary Louise as an older couple.
Through Itha or Mary, their children
and grandchildren descend from -- among others -- two
Civil War veterans, three D.A.R. established patriots of
the Revolutionary War, a Captain in the French &
Indian War, a woman executed as a witch because she
believed she saw her dead child, one of the 25 elected
barons who held title to some of King John's property so
as to guarantee compliance with the Magna Charta, Eleanor
of Aquitaine, Scotland's William the Lion, Scotland's
King David I, Malcolm III, and Duncan who was murdered by
Macbeth.
To see a list of all of the known
ancestors of Itha Elmer and Mary Louise, CLICK HERE
FAMILY GROUP
RECORD:
HUSBAND: Itha
Elmer DOYLE
BORN: 1874, Bixby,
Vermilion Co., IL
DIED: 22 Jan 1958, Niles, Berrien Co., MI
BUR.: Potomac Cemetery, Potomac, Vermilion Co., IL
MARR: 19 Dec 1900, Vermilion Co., IL
CENSUS: 1920, Norman Co., MN; 1910, Grant Twp., Vermilion
Co. IL; 1900, Butler Twp., Vermilion Co., IL.
FATHER: Thomas Reed DOYLE, a.k.a. Francis REED
MOTHER: Lucy PETERSON
=====================================
WIFE: Mary Louise PAYNE
BORN: 1 Jun 1883,
Marysville, Vermilion Co., IL
DIED: 26 Aug 1953, Niles, Berrien Co., MI
BUR.: Potamac Cemetery, Potomac, Vermilion Co., IL
FATHER: William O'Neal PAYNE
MOTHER: Elizabeth Ann OLIVER
=====================================
CHILDREN
=====================================
1.] Lucy May DOYLE
BORN: 19 Apr 1902, Rossville,
Vermilion Co., IL
DIED: 16 Oct 1993, Niles, Berrien Co., MI
BUR.: Mission Hills Cemetery, Niles, Berrien Co., MI
MARR: Oct 1916, Berrien Co., MI (3 sons born to this
marriage)
HUSBAND: Ralph Cleo
"Jack" QUICK; b. 8 Jan 1899; d. 23 Dec 1978
---------------------------------------------------------
2.] William Lester DOYLE
BORN: 21 Feb 1904, Bismark,
Vermilion Co., IL
DIED: 10 Oct 1956, South Bend, St. Joseph Co., IN
BUR.: Galien, Berrien Co., MI
MARR: 26 Oct 1926, Indianapolis, IN (3 dau. & 2 sons
born to this marriage)
WIFE: Elsie Hazel FISH (children
from prior marriages); b. 5 Mar 1892; d. 11 Dec 1989
---------------------------------------------------------
3.] Hettie Marie DOYLE
BORN: 20 Sep 1908, Rossville,
Vermilion Co., IL
DIED: 6 Nov 1975, Buchanan, Berrien Co., MI
BUR: Oak Ridge Cemetery, Buchanan, Berrien Co., MI
MARR: 20 Dec 1926; Troy, Ohio (2 dau. & 1 son born to
this marriage)
HUSBAND: Vernon Monroe SHANER, Sr.;
b. 7 Nov 1904; d. 24 Jan 1978
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4.] Ralph Reed DOYLE
BORN: 26 Aug 1917, Jamesburg,
Vermilion Co., IL
DIED: 24 Dec 1981, Decatur, Macon Co., IL
BUR.: Potomac Cemetery, Potomac, Vermilion Co., IL
MARR #1: 4 Jun 1939, Lafayette, IN (4 dau. & 1 son
born to this marriage)
WIFE #1: Marie TODD; b. 25 Apr 1921; d. 8 Jun 1957
MARR #2: 19 Jul 1958 (no children born to this marriage)
WIFE #2: Patricia HELTZEL; b. 28 Feb 1934; d. 10 Jul 2007
---------------------------------------------------------
5.] Elizabeth Ann DOYLE
BORN: 12 Jan 1921, Norman Co., MN
DIED: 8 Dec 2007, Mishawaka, St. Joseph Co., IN
BUR: St. Joseph Valley Memorial Park, Granger, St. Joseph
Co., IN
MARR #1: 16 May 1942, St. Joseph Co., IN (2 dau. born to
this marriage)
HUSBAND #1: William Emory SMITH; b. 22
Aug 1919; d. 1 Nov 1990 (2 dau. born to this marriage)
DIVORCED: 11 Apr 1947, South Bend, IN
MARR #2: 19 Nov 1949, South Bend, IN (1 dau. & 3 sons
born to this marriage)
HUSBAND #2: Miles Griffith BEARD; b. 14 Apr 1918; d. 23 Mar 2006
CLICK to see marriage #1 divorce decree and marriage
#2 records.
DESCENDANCY
CHART (through great-grandchildren)
=====================================
1--
Itha Elmer DOYLE (1874-1958)
.sp-Mary Louise PAYNE (1883-1953) |
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....2-- Lucy May DOYLE (1902-1993)
.....sp-Ralph Cleo "Jack"
QUICK (1899-1978) (m. Oct 1916)
........3-- George William
QUICK (b. 20 Jul 1918;
d. 30 May 1993)
............4-- [living male b. 1946]
........3-- Elmer Martin QUICK (b. 28 Dec 1919; d. 10 Jul 1983)
............4-- Barbara Jo QUICK, b. 1940
............4-- Ronald Martin
QUICK (b. 26 Jan 1942;
d. 23 Jun 2018)
............4-- Clark Lee QUICK (b. 19 Jan 1943; d. 19 Jan 1943)
............4-- Frances Mae
"Fran" QUICK
(b. 2 Jul 1944; d. 11 May 2018)
............4-- [living male b. 1945]
............4-- [living female b. 1947; not given
surname of her biological father]
............4-- Wanda Mae STUCKER (b. 16 May 1948; d. 15 Oct 2005; not
given surname of her biological father)
........3-- Garold Winton
QUICK (b. 16 Apr 1922;
d. 9 Jul 2015)
............4-- [living female b. 1938]
............4-- [living male b. 1942]
....2-- William
Lester DOYLE
(1904-1956)
.....sp-Hazel Elsie FISH (1892-1989) (m.
26 Oct 1926)
........3-- Mary Jane DOYLE (b. 1 Dec 1926; d. 4 Sep 2011)
............4-- [living male b. 1944] (no descendants; adopted infant
twins b. 1969)
............4-- [living female b. 1950]
............4-- [living female b. 1953]
............4-- [living female 1955]
............4-- Ernest Paul
"Kink" LANSFORD II (b. 5 Nov 1956; d. 24 Jun 2016)
............4-- Bonnie Lou
LANSFORD (b. 20 Jun
1960; d. 15 Oct 1997)
............4-- [living female b. 1962] (no descendants)
............4-- [living female b. 1963]
............4-- [living
male b. 1965] (no
descendants)
........3-- Zelma Janett DOYLE (b. 20 Oct 1928; d. 16 Nov 1993)
............4-- Robert Ray
ONDERDONK (b. 9 Jun
1949; d. 15 Jan 2006)
............4-- [living female b. 1950]
............4-- Jess Lee ONDERDONK (b. 12 Jul 1951; d. 5 Sep 2008)
............4-- [living male b. 1953]
............4-- James Rex
ONDERDONK (b. 29 Jun
1955; d. 17 Nov 1955)
............4-- [living male b. 1958]
........3-- Florence Cyintha
DOYLE (b. 17 Oct 1930;
d. 25 Jul 1937)
........3-- Lester Wayne DOYLE (b. 18 Sep 1933; d. 22 Jan 2018)
............4-- [living female b. 1953]
............4-- [living male b. 1958]
........3-- [living male b. 1940]
............4-- [living female b. 1962]
............4-- [living female b. 1967]
............4-- [living female b. 1969] |
|
....2-- Hettie
Marie DOYLE
(1908-1975)
.....sp-Vernon Monroe SHANER (1904-1978)
(m. 20 Dec 1926)
........3-- Verna Marie SHANER (b. 27 Nov 1927; d. 26 Dec 1995)
............4-- John DUNEK (b. 23 Aug 1954; d. 3 May 1967)
........3-- Lucille Mae SHANER (b. 20 Sep 1929; d. 24 Jan 2011) (no descendants)
........3-- Vernon Monroe
"Junior" SHANER, Jr. (b. 3 Nov 1932; d. 28 Jun 1998)
............4-- [living female b. 1954]
............4-- [living male b. 1956]
............4-- [living female b. 1958]
............4-- [living male b. 1964] |
|
....2-- Ralph Reed
DOYLE
(1917-1981)
.....sp-#1, Marie TODD (1921-1957) (m. 4
Jun 1939)
........3-- [living female b. 1940 (twin)]
............4-- Terry Lee
DOYLE-VanKIRK (b. 12
Jul 1960; d. 4 Mar 1961)
............4-- Ronald Kay Avery,
Jr. (b. 17 Jan 1962; d.
14 Jul 2007)
............4-- Kelly Ann AVERY (b. 11 Jan 1964; d. 11 Jan 1964)
............4-- [living male b. 1965]
............4-- [living male b. 1966]
........3-- [living female b. 1940 (twin)]
............4-- [living female b. 1960]
............4-- [living female b. 1963]
............4-- [living female b. 1964]
............4-- [living female b. 1967]
............4-- [living male b. 1977]
........3-- Ralph Reed
"Bubby" DOYLE, Jr. (b. 26 Jul 1942; d. 11 May 19 1967)
............4-- RuthAnn Marie
Doyle (b. 24 Jun 1966;
d. 24 Jun 2011)
........3-- Juanita Marie
DOYLE (b. 22 Sep 1943;
d. 22 Nov 2015)
............4-- [living male b. 1964]
........3-- [living female b. 1947]
............4-- Ricky Shawn GIBSON (b. 20 Oct 1969; d. 20 Oct 1969)
.....sp-#2, Patricia HELTZEL (1934-2007) (m. 19
Jul 1958) (no children born to marriage) |
|
....2-- Elizabeth
Ann DOYLE
(b. 1921-2007)
.....sp- #1, William Emory SMITH
(1919-1990) (m. 16 May 1942; divorced 11 Apr
1947)
. . . . . CLICK for divorce decree for marriage #1.
........3-- [living female b. 1944]
............4-- [living male b. 1968]
............4-- [living female b. 1973]
........3-- [living female b. 1947]
............4-- [living female b. 1974]
............4-- [living male b. 1977]
.....sp- #2, Miles Griffith
BEARD (1918-2006) (m.
19 Nov 1949)
. . . . . CLICK for marriage records for marriage #2.
........3-- Alice Marie Beard b. 1950
............4-- [living male b. 1979]
............4-- [living female b. 1984]
........3-- [living male b. 1955] (no descendants)
........3-- [male, presumed to be living, b.
1959]
............4-- [male b. about 1975, St. Joseph
County, Indiana; paternity hidden; not given
surname of biological father; fate unknown; only
source of info is father's mother.] |
........3-- [living male b. 1964]
............4-- [living female b. 1990]
............4-- [living female b. 1992]
............4-- [living male b. 1993]
............4-- [living female b. 1995]
............4-- stillborn male (1997) |
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Itha Elmer and Mary had 22
grandchildren known to have been born alive:
12 granddaughters and 10 grandsons.
This family has three unusual threads
to its history:
- The story behind the two boys who
were paternal half-brothers to Itha Elmer and
paternal first-cousins to Mary Louise,
available HERE.
- The story behind Itha Elmer's
father living out his life under a false
identity,
available HERE.
- The story of Mary Louise's mother
and her own complexities,
available HERE.
The attempt here is to
present accurate genealogical information that meets the
standards of genealogists. Errors have been corrected as
they have been found, and additional information has been
added as it has been learned.
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