Miss Martin
-by Randi Sue Baker Thelma Martin was the most
important teacher in my life. She was the first person
who ever made me feel special about my perceptiveness -
that I really had some talent. I used to stay after
school and talk to her for which some used to give me a
hard time for "brown nosing." It was
inconceivable that anyone would like to talk to Miss
Martin, but I loved to talk to her. I could talk to her
about things absolutely no one else wanted to talk about
- like why people acted as they did - what it all meant.
I read
constantly, and Miss Martin was the first person to
acknowledge that it was important to appreciate
literature and to encourage me. She was the person who
turned me on to Hesse and Sidhartha - way before
college.
I was so
afraid that I was going to turn into a spinster school
teacher because we shared this bond. I corresponded with
her after I left MHS. I learned the hard way how much
those single women teachers actually cared for us. I had
mentioned that I was coming back for the tenth reunion,
and she asked me to stop by to see her if I had time. I
didn't take her request seriously, and I didn't visit
her. I learned later from Jeanette Davis how disappointed
she was. I had no idea. We were their lives - the
evidence of their life's work! Miss Martin had been in
the service during the Second World War. She then had a
position with the Girl Scouts of America - a national
position for which she traveled a great deal.
I can see her
in my head. Her curly brown hair pulled from her face,
but not in a bun like Miss Hess, and that bright red
lipstick. When she was forming her thoughts to speak, she
would purse her mouth into a narrow "O." She
was the first person I ever knew who wore designer suits.
She never wore a traditional business suit. She wore
suits in pastel colors with piping and trim that imitated
Chanel - and silk blouses. Can you see that perfect
script - even on the black board? All the letters matched
each other in size and never on a slant. She was
inimitable. I was scared to death of her and absolutely
fascinated at the same time.
Randi Sue Baker,
Mishawaka High School Class of 1968
December 4, 2000
Thelma Martin
September 27, 1917;
October 5, 1986
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